They are trustworthy, focused, will give you the time of day, you can build a relationship with them, and they can always use your support. You can speak to the neighbors ahead of time, but no one is going to say, I’m a bad neighbor, but someone who badmouths the other neighbors is definitely a bad neighbor. But maybe he’ll realize how pitiful that would look and show up with a phony grin to go through the motions so he doesn’t end up in the history books for yet another negative reason. They’ll wonder what happened to you. Let what they say go in one ear and out the other, but weigh what they say to see if there’s any validity to it. Take the good and leave the bad. Start making plans to leave. Instead of arguing with them about everything they say, just listen. They don’t want to hear you.