I look after my parents especially my mother since she is ill and now my 4.5-year-old daughter is doing the same things for I never dreamed I’d be this crazy grandma with the cutest grandkids ever but here I am shirt. These posts always invoke such crazy comments. In a healthy household, there isn’t picking people over others. I have had to make so many difficult choices recently. I can only pray my children will understand. Spouse first. If kids are put over a spouse, the marriage fails. Kids need to see unity in the home, and that starts with nurturing each other. Also. My wife comes first. Even before my children. Both of my kids know it and wouldn’t think of testing it. She has seniority after all.