I know there are things I should learn, and then there are all the Let me pour you a tall glass of get over it oh and here’s a straw so you can suck it shirt Apart from…,I will love this things I want to learn. One of those lists is getting shorter, and one is getting longer. The whole concept of education focussing on the process, rather than the outcome, is a major paradigm shift for most people. The education structures we have in place are just not built for this, all our measurements are based on outcomes. I believe this results in children learning, parrot fashion, how to plug in the right answers, rather than actually understanding concepts. This is a really tough question for most people, and I noticed that the majority of answers are from women. I am going to answer this question based upon a decision I made 48 years ago. I am today 58 so I made this decision when I was ten.